I AM FROM VENUS

Why? Why ladies? Why do we insist on trying to tap into our men's minds as if they were our girlfriends? We hear every day, men are simple, men are simple. And we say, "NO. NO THEY ARE NOT. THEY ARE CONFUSING." We hint and we hint. Why? Is it because we like to be elusive? Probably not because we want whatever problem that is on the table solved. 
I think, it's because we are problem solvers by nature. If there's an issue with ourselves, or our friends, or the car, we're going to try to fix it. And in doing so, we expect others around us to become problem solvers, namely; men. If we give enough hints and "hypothetical" situations, maybe they'll understand what is going on in the deep complexities of our minds and figure out exactly what is bothering you. No. No. Simply no. It doesn't work like that. 
I never really understood the whole "men are simple creatures" until I was face to face with it. NOW I understand. 
So ladies, for the sake of your sanity and your man's, ditch the hints, and the situations, we all do it. Literally say one or two sentences that are the bare bones of your problem. "I feel _______ when ______." 
Its a bizarre thing to get used to since it's so foreign to us, but hey, sometimes change is good right?